Today we’d like to introduce you to LaTorya Starks.
Hi LaTorya , please kick things off for us with an introduction to yourself and your story.
First, I would like to start by saying thank you for this incredible opportunity to share my journey. I started my fitness journey back in 2012 after having my first son who is now 11 years old. I started up multiple times trying to find ways to fight the things that left me feeling like I was not enough, alone, and just not who I really want to be. I was working a dead-end job and not really sure what my next move would be. Fast forward to 2013 I got married life was going good! I became pregnant with my 2nd baby and at just 10 weeks pregnant I had a miscarriage. My life took a turn and I fell into deep depression and couldn’t understand why such a thing would happen to me. Every day as I was going through this at home and having to deliver this unborn child at home. I felt so alone and was struggling to get back on my journey. I had family members stating that it was because of my weight at the time that was the cause of me losing my unborn child. Obviously, that crushed me. Every day I prayer and looked for guidance to get back to me. But it was in those moments alone that I realized that I was stronger than what I could imagine. It was in those moments when I had to embrace the power on the inside of me. I got back on track changed my way of thinking and prepared myself for my next adventures.
In July of 2013, I found out I was pregnant again, and of course, I was already shaken by my previous experience. But this time I knew it was something different and special about this pregnancy at 10 weeks pregnant we found out we were having twin babies!!! Yes, Twins they are now 8 years old we were certainly blessed with double for all the trials that we endured! Miracles do happen.
I had the twins, and things were great until we got home and I had to do it all alone. 3 babies in diapers and two nursing. To say the least there was literally no time at all for me! As time went by, I embrace the hard moments but had to figure it out.
I fell back into postpartum depression, and there were good days and bad days! Days when I felt like I couldn’t push anymore. I prayed for better days I was tired of going back and forth to the doctor for supplements to help me with anxiety and for weight loss pills.
Fast forward to 2020 I had been searching for so long for something to help me to stay consistent with my weight loss journey. I seriously desired to get back into shape. The biggest thing was gaining my confidence back. Every time I would look into the mirror, I would smile, but deep on the inside, I was crying because I wasn’t happy with the reflection in the mirror.
July 19, 2020
I was scrolling through social media I saw an ad for Queen Warriors which is an online fitness program that you can do from the comfort of your home.
The first time I saw it, I passed right by it and after seeing it a second time I knew that it was something special about this program. I said to myself for $14 a month you have to try it! I have been a member now for 2 1/2 years. I have lost 76 lbs and 10 inches on my waistline and dropped 6 pant sizes all from showing up for myself.
In this season, I have truly learned what I am capable of. I have endured so much, but it’s part of my testimony. I recently launched my business Her Xscape it is a luxury activewear and loungewear company. I have gained confidence through wearing activewear and fitness apparel. It has help boost my confidence and taken me to the next level on my fitness journey. I love the way I look and feel while in activewear!!! My overall goal is to help women all over the world know that they can have and be anything they desire. It requires work, yes but it’s worth it! Never allow temporary situations allow you to make decisions you will regret tomorrow…
I will close with my favorite saying
“Reward is earned not given. Keep pushing your dreams don’t have to be just dreams they can be a reality. “
We all face challenges, but looking back, would you describe it as a relatively smooth road?
It has not been smooth by any means. There are days when I have just want to give up everything!
As you know, we’re big fans of Her Xscape. For our readers who might not be as familiar, what can you tell them about the brand?
Her Xscape is and Athletic wear and loungewear company. We have quality pieces for an affordable price.
We all have a different ways of looking at and defining success. How do you define success?
The outcome of a successful accomplishment whether it’s good or bad. If you tried it and it didn’t work the 1st time don’t give up try again.
Contact Info:
- Website: www.herxscape.com
- Instagram: Her_xscape
- Facebook: Her_xscape
Image Credits
Jeremiah Starks
