Today we’d like to introduce you to Coco The Conversational Freak.
Hello Coco The Conversational Freak, please kick things off for us with an introduction to yourself and your story.
I grew up in a religious Haitian household. The only thing I was taught about sex was it was for married people and for the purpose of having children. Growing up super naive I found myself sexually assaulted at a young age and coerced into sexual acts because of my lack of knowledge, self-worth, and guidance. I realized that my insecurities with sexual emotions and topics also showed in my relationship with friends, family, and lovers.
I had major boundary issues and had a hard time articulating myself which led to me never having the confidence to speak up and show up for myself. One year I decided to take a solo trip abroad to Mexico for a self-care/healing retreat called (The Unruly Retreat) and that was it!
For the first time in my life, I got to sit with myself around women who were on the same healing journey and every decision was based off of what I wanted to do, where I wanted to go, and how I wanted to do things. When I got the chance to get to know me, it unlocked a side of me I always knew was there but never gave the chance to shine through. After I flew back home, I ended my almost 7-year relationship and began to date me, and got to the root of my insecurities and fear- sex.
Me advocating my own desires turned into advocating and coaching other women to do the same and it has been a beautiful journey since then.
Would you say it’s been a smooth road, and if not, what are some of the biggest challenges you’ve faced along the way?
Not at all! It is a daily practice and unlearning insecurities and what you were taught to be is something that is difficult. When I first started my journey the fear of judgment was always at the forefront of my mind and scared me to death but I knew what it was like to live in fear already, I was ready to know what the other side of that looked like.
Alright, so let’s switch gears a bit and talk business. What should we know about your work?
I am known as Coco the Conversational Freak the sex confident coach. I teach women how to build relationships with themselves while building confidence in the bedroom. I am known for my “tell it how it is with a side of humor” ways and being upfront and honest when it comes to sexual conversations and coaching. I host a virtual sensual flex class every Wednesday at 7 pm to help women get in touch with their body while gaining confidence within the bedroom and with their selves. I also created a free private community for women to express themselves and have access to resources to help with their feminine & sexual wellness.
I am most proud of being able to become the woman I needed as a little girl and I can use my past experiences and knowledge to help others become that for themselves. I am raw and authentic in how I express myself, accepting who I am along with my flaws, and being able to just speak on what others are afraid of being judged on.
What sort of changes are you expecting over the next 5-10 years?
In my industry I see a lot more women becoming aware of themselves and their bodies. I can see more people being open to confident conversations about sex, pleasure, desire, and how their sexuality can be multi-dimensional.
Pricing:
- Paid Membership $15/mo free weekly live classes and 24/7 replay access
Contact Info:
- Email: theconversationalfreak@gmail.com
- Website: www.theconversationalfreak.com
- Instagram: https://instagram.com/theconversationalfreak
Image Credits
The Plug ATL
Stitch of Class Photography
Self Lit Photography
