Today we’d like to introduce you to Chavah Foxx.
Hi Chavah, thanks for sharing your story with us. To start, maybe you can tell our readers some of your backstory.
My name is Dr Chavah Foxx and the foot prints of my destiny and purpose on this earth started at 7 years old when I was home alone and forced to find my way through the smoke of a crack house full of people, drunk, high and laid out on the floor of roach infested apartment, just to find my mother, i will never forget the night i met “Fear” for the first time and that spirit made a very cunning introduction into my life very early. I recall the this day in Jacksonville, Nc behind Dairy Queen in a very creepy apartment complex that stole my innocence as a child as the darkness of the shadows of life stuck me in the back pocket hoping i would suffocate and die, in hopes i will neve get to tell my story. My mother was strung out and left me home neglected and alone with my baby brother several days at at time always promising to be right back as those words turned into 3 to 4 days later as me and my baby brother who cried so many days with a pissy or poop pamper on ate peanut butter crying together because we just wanted mommy. I feel like i has some type of instinct in me at that age because i never would put my brother down or leave his side. I was his protector. I recall so many days my mother and step dad would just fight because my mother just would not do right and be a wife or a mother. As time passed the two them had gotten a divorce and my mother moved in with her boyfriend by the name of Brandon, the man who altered my childhood. So, not to long after the day of me standing in the dark streets of Jacksonville, Nc calling my mother’s name looking for her, is when around those days apart I was molested by this man as he sat and watched me watch a childs show called” The Care Bears” for days i would see him look at me very strange but i really did not know anything too much as to what it meant, I mean i was a innocent child and very innocent at that. I recall this one day particularly i was hungry i really just wanted some oodles and noodles, and who ever thought that noodles would turn into a world of unforgettable darkness. I remember he made me go in the room i was hungry yet and still made me lay down next to him. He was rubbing on me in places he should not have. I remember very clearly he told me if i suck his “you know what” he would make me noodles…. Well from there just so happened life changed and i was exposed to things i should not have been for some oodles and noodles. I recall my step dad showing up that day to stomp a entire whole in this guys life if he could. I remember going to be placed with my grandmother who just loved me so much, she really cared so well for me and kept me safe, she raised me in the truth as a Jehovah Witness and it was the best thing i had to ground my heart so it would not go hard. I was safe besides the times my cousin would hit on me and threaten to cut my hair and try to hit my face and make me sit outside the rooms when they where all in the room playing the Nintendo, I had to sit outside the door and play the Nintendo because they told me ” NO WHITE PEOPE ALLOWED in the room. They where so mean to me, i tried to fit in so bad. oh it was so sad and even after we grew up they where still jealous and actually a a few of them told me they where and they just do not know why, or they hate me, because everything always works out for me( you know funny enough i was so darn nice to them). As for my mother she had her dope man and this guy was still round. I actually had been effected by the situation and my nervous system was messed up, i used to pull huge balled spots in my hair, and half the time i had no idea i wad doing it. I remember when he the guy brandon would pop up at my grandma house when grandma was not home, but sadly my mother still allowed this guy around me as i would go hide when he showed up. I remember one day he was there sitting on the side of the bed watching my mother as she had been sleep for days wore out from the streets and drugs. I this day was watching him from outside the door as i was eating popcorn because he had that look i recall seeing before he violated me. So as i sat there he began to get up and go downstairs, so i ran away to hide. I heard him in the kitchen doing something, then his foot steps come back up the stairs as he went back in my grandma room where my mom was asleep at. I of course wanted see that he was up too because something did not sit right in my spirit. I recall finishing up my popcorn and as i reached in the bag to get the last of my mouth full of popcorn, I looked up and in DISBELIEF! as i watched this man cut my mother face up like fish with a pick knife and she just laid there because she could not feel it. I began to scream to the living top of my lungs as she heard the death scream in my voice she jumped up and was covered in blood! OH God i remember him running off and i ran so fast to put my mom black boots on and her black leather sued jacket and ran to my aunti house to get help. My mother of course was rushed to the hospital and it was so sad to watch her have to go through that. As time went by she eventually had 2 more children, my two sisters while after she having them just two weeks old i was mothering them both, watching over them and being a mom. So as the years went on i had a lot more encounters of life situations as my mother was kidnapped and thrown up in a ditch next to a dead body beat to almost death. This lady out lived a cat who already have 9 lives. So of course as life happened i always promised myself i would be the best mom when i have kids and love them the way i could only envision being loved. Besides my mother taking photos of me as i gotten older and because i was so beautiful this lady would sell my photos of my face for crack cocaine, and… she would promise these men to meet me just to get free crack. smh ” talk about a different way of child trafficking huh” smh… I as well wind up following my mothers footsteps on abusive men, not drugs but honestly we had a good relationship starting until the abuse began. My first two kids father, he would fight and put fear in my heart so i could not leave him, until one day I had to go! this particular day i remember him being at our apartment and he was acting really strange, I had spoken to my god brother earlier that day, and told him to call me later for something important. So later that evening i remember my child’s father putting the kids to sleep and turning all the lights off in the house, he tells me to come in the front room and so i did, he starts to fight with me and be weird, so i was as you now fighting back as i had to defend myself. I ran in the room in the closet and start throwing coat hangers at him and as he snatched them from me, he was ripping my nails and breaking them off of my fingers as my finger blead horribly he snatched me by my neck and drug me into the front room, and he was choking me on the floor so bad, i looked over and i happen to see a knife stuck down in the couch as he obviously stuck it there, I was trying to fight this demon off of me! but before i knew it i heard a knock at my door and it was my god brother! he was knocking on the door and when i heard the knock, i then decided to take my last breath and make something happen! I screamed with all i had help! trust and believe that would have been it for me if he did not hear me. The knock turned into a kick the door in and he jumped on my childs father and as for me, i was breathing but with sever bruises around my neck. I finally had a restraining order and all the necessary to keep this guy away from me. Now, My first husband bet the living shit snot out of me, the times he would drag me through the house by my hair and kick me out the car 5 months pregnant to walk home, or the times he would set my two little kids outside the house at 2 am in the morning saying these someone else two nuts and ii would fight him so bad not to touch my babies but he was a very mean man. I should have known he was off when he hid up under my house for 3 days watching me, but i think as some point us girls thought that was cute and until this day i shake my head because i was a product of my environment of my mothers tainted womb. I finally left that guy and it was hard because he would cheat on me and leave me home as he knew i did not work and neve taught me how to drive but it was the” Handicap” method of course , so i could not leave him, the if i cant have you no one will. I remember he would hit me so much my family jumped him and beat the living breaks off of him. MY goodness! he neve touched me again. I had gotten away from him and he wind up stealing our 2 kids and running to New York wit them for a year in hopes he would get me back because he knew i loved those babies and that was the only thing that kept my heart beating and strong. So life went by he eventually came back to NC and he tortured me so bad keeping my kids away and giving me such a hard time i actually got a gun and i recall one day i was about to blow this guy away over my kids. I literally had enough of him in the way of me mothering my kids. Thankfully GOD stepped in. So fast forward i was in a healthy marriage eventually years later and life was good. I had opened up a in home daycare in our home, where i had alot of kids i was responsible for and i loved those little babies. Of course i always had my favorites. As of the bigger picture ii had 6 kids of my own i birthed and everyone elses kids lol! but they where all mines. Time went by my new husband and ii moved to myrtle beach he wind up having ptsd from the military. So basically he eventually got worse and worse he began to scream in my face, sit in the dark in the house ad watch me, or stand over me while i was asleep and watch me. I recall the day he would yell in my face like a drill sergeant OMG! saying JUST GIVE ME YOUR SOUL! ( I was not in the mood to keep fighting satan) and him bullying me. I was not going to give this man my soul, I had no idea how to do that anyways. I left him, we got divorced from me cheating on him and i was not happy about committing adultery but he was getting so bad it was the only way i could end the marriage spiritually i knew better. As i did have the other guy comforting me over social media and my husband was on the road for a month a time and he would just talk to me crazy when he called home. I did not want to speak to that guy he was always controlling me and very jealous if other men was around me,. So that eventually ended. My 17 year old son got into it with some friends and they wrote a lie conspiracy against him my son, the racist judge and D.A in COBB COUNTY MARIETTA GA, sentenced my son to 10years in prison. My 15 year old daughter got pregnant with a baby at 15. Life was hard though, but i was used to it being hard, it is all i knew all my lie, you better believe GOD YHWH did not allow me to get away with that behavior of sinning and committing adultery no matter that my husband was a issue of his own and was obsessed with me, I would literally wake up and he would be inhaling my arm pits scent YUP! face in my arm pit, or face inhaling my panties out the dirty laundry! … I regret the act of cheating but i am more grateful we have a merciful Heavenly Father, I really just wanted to break my vows to him and get away ! I did my karma though and it was rough. I met a man who actually grew me and Had me honored with a “Honorary Doctorates degree in Humane Letters” after i came from Africa from the “presidential conclave” I attended. ( There is so much in between here i have not shared) but… As time went on my grand mother died my mother died the worse as she was so jealous of my relationship with my grandma and my mom was so jealous of me she would attempt to destroy my relationships and reputation, as if she had not caused e enough pain as a child. and i still forgave her. My mother wind up doing some witch craft on me, I am aware of. She was so envious of me, i really was not the most comfortable around her when i gotten older and strangely she was so damn obsessed with, she was dangerously envious of my relationship me with my children because we where so close ad i was a great mom to them. she did some evil things as i gotten older to try to break up my marriages and cause issues all over my life. She left me out not helping me one time as she says she doesn’t know how she feels about having another woman in her house around her husband. The thing is my mother seen the anointing on me, I recall her telling me, she now knows what mary felt like birthing jesus and how she has no idea where i gotten my heart from because it was a good forgiving tender heart. My ex husband moved on. i wind up putting together a movement and company called “women united in power” it was a organization for woman to mother there children and change the dynamics of the bond between a mother child for the better of course. and oh! don’t i know. I did the event in my home town and you know high school was hard there, and beauty can be a blessing and a curse! I definitely have a lot of that beauty. The organization did not grow. Last and not least, after my grandmother passed away i got very inner, i really has no one then. I recall leaving Atlanta and going to Miami to breath away from life. I wind up coming back to Atlanta I moved to a house, the contractor bought it up from under me, I had to move out. I moved to an apartment, the side wall caved in mysteriously, I moved to a high rise in Buckhead and my ceiling caved in out the blue. I then got ripped off about a million dollars from a guy who was supposed be my friend, i helped nurture him back to help when his wife passed away. This made year, i was hit the back of my by a little red car out some guy was driving , i was in my the blue mercedes benz and he threw me in on coming traffic after hitting me from behind and a mack truck then smashed the side of my car right outside the window of my condo in FRONT OF MY KIDS! they ran across the street as they heard the loud smack and see it was mommy!. Lord GOD was watching over me! the paramedics looked at me and said “how in the heck did i survive that? the doctor that examined me said how in the heck don’t you have any bruises? all while i was out feeding the homeless people with my last dollars. Trust me GOD YHWH saved me; trust me, i remember the angel that spoke to me and told me what to do in that very moment on impact. I will never forget. Then i got a new car i was up walking around in two days, no one could explain it. in this same year. I then had broken up with my lover, he just left me out the blue, I had to get an abortion… I was no space to raise a baby at this moment. Then my baby cousin murdered in Jacksonville, NC, My business account closed down, the money went missing and the bank had no explanation. My and car insurance lapsed 1 month early, I went to fast for a week no food, after the fast that night. So, i put on all of my luise Vuitton and red bottoms and got out to get some air looking fabulous.! then i went out to have a drink with a guy friend who was spending a lot of money on me and those $500 bottles, there where two big girls there i did not know and he didn’t either. So the restaurant closed and i left to get my car, my friend was with me, we went to valet to get my keys of my new truck from the accident (remember). ok so the two big girls walk up to my car still sipping champagne and was trying to get in my car. I was very nice and told them no… so the girls said.. Bitch we got money, and i said “I never said you didn’t ma’am. Do you know these two girls threw their glass at me trying to hit my face! while i was sitting in my truck. As i seen my face was good i was just trying to leave and forgive them, I mean my face was not cut, although I had glass all over me from it hitting my dash board, Just crazy! as far as my friend she was was so upset, and over these jealous woman she got out to fight them, and i had to park the car and get my friend, she was tired of the way the woman was so jealous of me and i am always so kind. Honey i had to get out the car and to fight the both of them off of her and of course they came for me, as they where trying to attack my face! I beat the breaks off those big girls and was praying over them all the while i did.. lol! i left there and was in perfect condition, to be honest i could not tell you who they where! any way, The next few days, my son was being disrespectful i had to put him out, my daughter was bring disrespectful i had put her out. My daughter have done some very disrespectful things to me for no reason, but just kept loving her. Her and my son have told some horrible lies on me as their mother, I have never done. They have destroyed my homes. they have been the stress of my life the way them two kids treated me, just was so sad ( too long to get into that disrespect they done to me). I told them they did not deserve such a good mom, they really should have had my mother as their mom.. How was i the good soft nice mom loving them and the disrespect from these two have been hideous. All while they always needed me and would never leave. ugh! i just kept them as i could and love them. right before i moved out the condo i was in prayer ad i had flash of me in Africa! and it was so many kids around me, i was hugging and just smiling, i felt a feeling of joy and overwhelmed from happiness when i seen that. At the time I HAD NO CLUE WHY I HAD THAT VISION SO CLEAR!
So, i then moved out the condo, my laptop crashed, my phones broke, and my car gotten repossed. Due mind you… this was year 2022 my mother had just gotten $80,000 dollars and was supposed to help me… Well she said she could not help me any longer and literally called to check on me just to make sure i was still homeless, no lie and laughed at me and talked about me like a dog. All the while, i was still praying for her on the phone through this because she would ask that i pray for her because she knew GOD YHWH I AM THA I AM .. hears my prayers. I was staying at a sister friend house at thus moment. Eventually like 3 weeks later she was being so hateful and mean to me… you know i recall this girl getting mad every time we where out about the men being in my face and wanting me. Do mind you, it went over my head. Come to find out, she wanted to sleep with me and for me to be her girlfriend. I refuse to, so she made me leave. So i went over another friend house, she had a mattress for me sleep on, i was living out of my bags but i was ok. I just needed a new laptop to get work done to make money. As far as her, she loved having mu spirit around like everyone else because it was always a blessings, joy and love that came with me me no matter what i was dealing with. So i eventually gotten a laptop. and made money, i got an apartment. The thing is this articular day i was walking back to my homegirl house, I heard a baby crying and i looked it was a man, a woman and 3 babies in the car in the heat. I walked over to check on them and asked can i pray with them. They said they where living in a tent and their car. So… I did what i knew was right. It was one of me, although i had not seen my kids in months since i moved out the condo, ” they where with their dad” So i walked in the house grabbed my new apartment lease, the apartment key and some money, gave it to them, prayed for the family and told them this it is GOD YHWH gift to them, they have brand new home now to take their babies home. told them pay the bills and just live. As for me…. i did not know what to do now. But i had to get my daughter for the summer next week. So, a pastor friend took me to get my daughter because her dad knowing i had no car to get her, was being mean to me as i have been so kind to him, he was just upset i did nit want to be with him as the others. I gotten my daughter, I went a hotel that night and had a dream, a angel told me to not go back to my friend house and to leave all of my things and to be obedient and GOD will multiply me. So i stayed at the hotel. Left all of my things, just so happened, a girl needed some clothes the next day and i told her to have all of my clothes and go pick them up at this address. So someone was blessed with lavish items. I then went in prayer ask GOD where are we going, i had a nudge to call this guy friend i knew. He then sends me t his brother house who had a lot of room we stayed there for 2 months. So the brother fell in love with me caring for him and of course my my beauty and kind gentle heart. Good thing while i was there i had a long time friend guy friend call me up back in NC. He was leaving for the summer and asked if i would like to stay at his mansion and a BMW is there and food, gated community, pool, gym, and beach near by. I could bring my kids to spend time with them. So the guy we where withdrove us to NC and it was a great summer! .OMG although my son the disrespectful one.. was again disrespectful and also putting his hands on his girlfriend when i left the house. Just like his daddy. smh.. I worked on that kid and prayed and fasted over him the best i could. Anyways… We enjoyed mot days though. So eventually the kids left and i was in the house alone. Now, the good friend, he was gone but he wanted me stay and he wanted to take care of me and be with me. I did it want that, he was a big boy Masonic Brother very good living and top official like respect. One night before i was going to leave and go back to GA, because a pastor friend had a extra room i could borrow, i was going to see about re-establishing myself. This night i recall being in the house alone. And i had some wine. I laid down and was closing my eyes when, I lie to you not! i felt something pin me down and breathing over me, ii tried to get up and i couldn’t it was breathing over my face! in my ear! said I AM NOT Afraid of you ! get off of me now! i tried to scream and suddenly, i could not scream! the only thing i could think of was to pray and call of GOD YHWHW and every name i could! so it begin to back off of me. I was terrified! I called the owner my friend and aid he has n idea why that happened. But i need to not be in the hose alone. I packed up and left asap! i went to my pastor friend house in snellville GA. He turned out to be a monster! this man wanted me so bad, I was focused and i just needed a friend, I was exhausted in life. Well… He eventually was cutting the internet off and being weird. He knew i had no car he would not even ask if i needed food, all because i did not comply, he wanted me so bad. he eventually would invite so many woman over and then had the audacity to be giving me a hard time, trying to control me like i was going to be his slave girl or something. so i spiritually told him off. lol! he made me pack up my things and dropped me off at a hotel and was rude! and left me. But hell by this point i did not care! i was just lie what next! going forward… the day i had to be out the hotel my oldest daughter, she met this African guy who was so kind, he gave me money, and her, then… he put me up in a Hyatt presidential suite for 2 months, and i tell you it was such ah break and a fresh breath of air for a moment before the front desk ladies start seeing me and wanted to know what i did for a living, I had a consulting company as government contractor for a long while anyway, educating people and building them up business development, also i am a author, Inspired by Steve Harvey, My forward in my book is dedicated to him, he truly saved my life at my lowest moments. ( he was apart the reason i found out i had gifts to recognize, anyway my book has not come out yet) Anyway… i moved out the hotel Hyatt into a friend house, next door to a guy friend i knew for 12 years. We dated before, i really loved him at one point a lot! he was just wind up having a baby and was trying to be with the mom to make it work.. The lady i was with she was elderly and that became a problem because her daughter started getting jealous of the relationship i had with her mom, an started coming around all of a sudden but causing a headache. Her mom was so happy and living and had a close girlfriend/daughter now. So the girl was being a problem so i left because the mom was elderly and i did not want no issues. So i moved next door with the guy friend, he lived with his kids. Those boys where so bad and that house was darn dirty! like if i could put a scenario to it, it was like 5 trash bags full of the nastiest trash and flees was dumped and rubbed all over that house. Ugh!!! anyways he was like family. So I did what i knew! I got a vacuum, I got a shampooer, cleaning supplies, some gloves, boots, and long sleeve clothes on and scrubbed that house with bleach and chemicals and cleaned the walls the floors the cabinets, dishes, clothes, outside filthy yard and made magic! I filled the house up with food, i had put my furniture in it i blessed them with from my condo that roof fell in, and prayed over it and put chrismas trees up and cooked dinner that week. The house was like a new house out the box! I am a chef so i COOK COOK! but Those boys where constantly blasting rap music, running around the house flipping off the furniture. Sneaking out of windows, robbing cars, cursing and smoking weed! smh… I was so ready to go. So one day i am like i just am tired i just want to be home. It was now 2023 and it been a long journey!. My daughter my 16 year old was with me as well. finally, because her dad was trying to give me a hard time about getting her, So my 16 year old i got pregnant with after my first divorce, So while i was pregnant with her, ( she was not his child) is when i met my second husband( the one with PTSD that wanted my soul!) Anyways… back to the house with the bad boys… I went on facebook dating app one day and this guy he hit me up, i was ignoring him for a while but i eventually linked up with him. he lived in Alpharetta Ga. just a little time went by and we just stayed together, he gave me a home and some peace for 5 months he was the best, i always had a lot of money. He made sure he provided well. He took in me and my daughter and covered us. Then… He began to be the HELL OF A GUN i was not looking for! OMG!! funny we loved each other, well i grew to love him, I Turned his house into a home, and showed him what a good woman looks like. I also loved him so good, as i was so respectful and he provided well and kept money in my pocket. Well, he was so disrespectful and the sneaky betrayal. he would drink and do the worse things and forms of disrespect. He moved my other daughter in from NC ad provided for her as well. Now we lived a very lavish life style, and all of his friends and family love me. His mom and dad spoiled the mess out of them. he moved me and my 3 girls and my grand daughter in to a million dollar home for my birthday as a gift for me, although two days after that he was screaming in my face trying to kick us out, because i cooked bacon in the house and then said he did not do that. My middle daughter hated him, she moved out, my oldest daughter tried to fight him because he was so darn disrespectful and my youngest daughter begged me to stop forgiving him and apologizing to him for things i have not done. He would humiliate me in public pilling on me, yelling at me, fighting me, disrespectful for no reason but his own. I wind up going to college me and my girls together. For some reason even though this man had the best woman, I loved him more than he loved his self and mistreated the hell out of me the more i loved him. He would leave out stay out over night, then plead the 5th, he would, make me feel devalued and i still just took the lead to keep the peace, anyway i found out he was on cocaine and his porn habit was bigger than me. Although i neve stopped him from it. He was insecure and a lazy fuck! his back and knees would always hurt and he was not sexually confident, not matter how much i would make him feel like a big man. So, i suffered sexually, emotionally and mentally, he did not appreciate me but took credit i was his woman and he has a beautiful home, life and wife. I prayed, i cooked, i cleaned i loved him, i did every and anything for him, I was the handy man, and the lead, I made his money multiply, I was never behind on house chores and i was in school. I hosted the best parties, we provided for a lot of the college kids, we mentored and i mothered. i also always showed up for my man 1000 percent. The more i did, the more he mistreated me, the more love and praise i got from others it could be men or woman, the more he was nasty towards me. The more he got complimented about me he would just act like i wasn’t special. If he did anything hurtful or disrespectful, He would then become the victim like i did something, then i am apologizing when i did nothing! anyways he wind up almost costing me my life in Miami one time, He was drunk and on that stuff. He left me at 4 am for no reason all because i asked if i could rive, he got angry, really i was being so sweet to him. A uber picked me up and tried to abduct me, took me to a dead end, made me get i the front seat, Took my phone, Picked up another guy, Dropped him off then told me he is going to take me traveling and go to his house. i just told GOD YHWH, I do not want to die like this but if this it is. So be it!. Eventually the russian guy took me home, he did not speak english, he spoke to me through a app. smh. anyways i got back to the resort and this man of mines, did not get in until 1 pm the next day and act like i was supposed to be good and happy. Made it about him, never comforted me, I left out the resort crying i was so worried about him, but mean while i am in destress and left out the room, he decides to watch porn while i was gone and you know. We got back to GA and i moved out the room, like i could not take anymore besides… He was going to make me feel unloved and never going t apologize or treat me the way i know i deserved. Finally i kept trying until i gave up. i actually tried to commit suicide. I was just over the entire life journey. Like y hand been rough!!! since i was born and i am tired of fighting, trying and loving. I just forgave them all, everyone and forgave myself for what ever i did so bad in this life or another if it was one. This was the end for me. I quit and i had no strength to do anything but do what i knew to do the best, that was love and forgive everyone as i always have. One day. Just ripped my clothes off and fell to the ground and ask GOD to please just take me. One day, I was asleep and had another angel dream and the angel told me to fast, no alcohol, no hookah, no vape, no sexy clothes, no sex, no sex toys, no masturbating, Cut off my 12 year bff friendship, and leave the man i am with. The only thing is… I am going to heal through my pain. I had to heal through being in the same house, watching this man go out leave 10pm come back 5 am or leave over night and i cried something terrible, because the saddest thig is, Although last he knew i left the room because he keeps hurting me so bad with his horrible behaviors and mistreatment. He never came to try to fight for me back or even came to check on me in the next room or down stairs. He would if it was benefiting him. He just seemed like 2 years of the passion i poured into him never existed or i was not good enough because i didn’t have the money he had or degrees, then tried to make it seem like he broke up with me, i was the problem and because i had 6 kid he all of a sudden didn’t want his first kid to be number 7, so he tried to break me. (trust me if you seen this guy, you would look off and laugh) Although i had A very special heart, love and light on me that never died for some reason. And the more i shined the more torture i received. One thing is for sure i did what The angel of GOD asked me to do. and i did just so. I fasted for 3 days no food, then another 4 days no food. After that, shoot! i repented and even asked the air to forgive me for anything i ever spoke wrong against anyone! So i had a prophet praying for me, and scripturally helping me. I walked daily to the cafe and i did not ask this man for anything, not even food or water. GOD told me to pack up everything in the house and sell it. And i did just so. I got rid of all my sexy clothes and put the rest in suite cases living in the next room in a suite case. Do you know In the midst of all of this ! GOD gave me an assignment, The more i showed obedience and the stronger i gotten, i then asked GOD what he wanted from me, I received an assignment. He Told me one day I was going to ” Mother the Motherless children.” I had no idea how, in the heck I was going to do that?! I was broke and healing. Relaying on GOD for everything. So one day i asked GOD, what was the name of the company or mom business. he said ” Universal Mom Inc. and GOD is GOD, i went to look it up and it was available! and never used on earth before. I used the money from the Stuff i sold to establish everything a full operating organization needed across the nation. I built up and did all the ground work with my own hands with GOD YHWH help. Time went by and right when i thought i was in the clear GOD called again. I asked The Holy Spirit, what did i need to do now. Because i felt it and heard it in spirit! GOD asked me to sacrifice wine and men! I was so upset like… All’s i have is wine to drink, at lease that keep sane from going over the edge while i am in this house healing through this pain! now you want that. I already gave you my body and follow your commands, and listen to your voice, and i am obedient. and i sacrificed everything i wanted to do because i love you. So i after my tears, complied a few hours later and i stuck to the mission since. Clean and obedient as a whistle! Here I am Still good hearted and following The orders righteously as I was asked too and DID! I sacrificed for my obedience, but I DO NOT SACRAFICE MY OBEDIENCE! and a Heart to love a nation! SO WHO AM i? Chavah Foxx, I AM A SPIRITUAL AGENT OF THE KINGDOM OF THE HEAVENS, I AM UNIVERSAL MOM INC…
Would you say it’s been a smooth road, and if not what are some of the biggest challenges you’ve faced along the way?
The struggles where being left alone in a world so cold and having to love the worse people and for give them, I still had to love them and forgive them and pray for them, All while they cut, stabbed and beat me down. Yet and still, I keep my integrity, trying to find a away, GOD made a way, i prayed a way. I trusted GOD YHWH, I Kept my faith and QUITTING just would not let me QUIT! even when i wanted too.
Truth is, I can not tell you what if feels like to just be loved, Or to have a good man love me so tender and support me, just protect me and appreciate the Queen, but i guess it would take a true KING chosen by the Jurisdiction of the Heavenly Court room and appointed by GOD to even know me. I am myself am so darn good at Loving, strangely enough after everything, right. My heart is so tender and forgiving healthy and pure.
These men obsessed with me and broke me down, the woman jealous and hated me but never had a reason to, my family was never there to support me, I was always the black sheep. My mother… Well lets just say she neglected me, and envied me and i still oved her and prayed for her the most, she did what she was sent to do. and i Would not change anything i been through at all, FOR THE WOMAN I STAND TODAY> I WOULD NOT CHANGE FOR ANYTHING AT ALL TO BE JUST WHO I AM… ME !
Thanks for sharing that. So, maybe next you can tell us a bit more about your business?
Our Founder
Dr. Chavah Foxx: A Sacred Calling
Dr. Chavah Foxx is more than a founder — she is a living embodiment of maternal love and resilience.
A mother of six, a mentor to countless souls, and a woman who has walked through her own valleys of abuse and trauma as a child. Dr Foxx knows first hand every thought and emotions felt; that stems from neglect, pain and loss. She has transformed her life experiences turning her into the power-house she is today on this powerful mission of healing and mothering the motherless children.
Growing up in Newark, New Jersey, Dr. Foxx learned what it meant to fight for love and stability. As a mother, she witnessed firsthand the heartache of watching her own child slip into the system, losing his way at just 17, ultimately being sentenced to 10 years in adult prison. Rather than letting that pain destroy her, she allowed it to awaken a divine purpose: to mother the children society had forgotten.
Dr. Foxx’s journey is not one of simple survival — it is a story of sacred transformation. She stands today as:
A voice for the voiceless.
A heart of love, for the broken.
A safe place for every child who has ever felt unseen.
Our Sacred Mission
“To mother the motherless. To heal the hurting. To uplift the unseen. To be what every child deserves” —
“A steady, safe, and sacred source of love.”
Universal Mom, Inc. was not created as a business idea. It was born from a divine calling — a spiritual assignment to rewrite the narrative for youth lost in the shadows.
We believe every child deserves to feel the warmth of a mother’s embrace, the safety of a nurturing presence, and the power of knowing they matter. Yet too many children grow up in silence, carrying wounds that no one sees: wounds of abandonment, rejection, and emotional starvation.
Our mission is simple yet revolutionary: To Mother the Motherless.
Through programs in juvenile detention centers, schools, foster care systems, and communities, we show up as mothers, mentors, and healers. We offer unconditional love, emotional intelligence training, life coaching, and a new vision for what’s possible.
Universal Mom, Inc. is not just a nonprofit. It is a movement of maternal restoration, a revolution of nurturing that transforms stories of shame into stories of strength and success.
We’d love to hear about how you think about risk taking?
I have mastered risk!… I will say this, The risk I took was what got me through and to the place i am today. What we call risk, some may say blind faith, because you still do not know the out come. It is the risk stepping in Blind faith we take. Being still and not conquering or moving forward, not taking a leap but slowly seeping down, You are still drowning in the unknown. Take the risk and do not stop moving, growing and praying. Obedience to GOD make First!
Contact Info:
- Website: https://www.universalmominc.org
